Please accept this message as a daughter would from her father.
You may not understand or agree with some of what I say here, but please accept that it is coming from someone who sincerely cares about you.
So why do I care about you?
Because, Pritika, you have the heart of an angel. I know this because I have felt it from you, almost always, when I have spoken with you in the past. You have a sweetness about you that most people don’t have.
I have watched you flip-flopping on this relationship issue for a couple of years now and if you were my daughter, I would say to you:
Please know that the crazy things we do as humans do not define who we are. It is our heartfelt feelings that define us. You are a light that brightens the lives of others. Because of this, people are attracted to you and respect you. I know you don’t fully realize this, but somewhere within you, you know it.
Those who don’t respect you don’t deserve your attention and you should move on without them. Most people in this world will not and cannot change their behaviour just because you want them to.
The problem with all of us is that we are bound tightly by the dark events of our family history. It’s as if a magic spell has been cast upon us that prevents us from breaking free and creating the life that our inner being knows we really want and deserve. Because of this we each have an aura, a personal energy, that sometimes seems to attract the wrong people. It’s not their fault – it is ours. In order to attract the right people we have to make changes within our own self.
As human beings, it is our challenge to rise above the often painful events of the past, raise the standards of what we expect from our life and realize how special we really are. This is not easily done and doesn’t happen over night, but it can happen if we have the will. Realize that angels like you deserve the very best that life offers. You are definitely greater than you realize.
As far as relationships are concerned, never be desperate. Take your time. If you are attracting people who don’t make you happy, make changes within yourself so that you will automatically attract a different kind of person. Expand your horizons.
In all ways, look after the health of your body – it is a gift from the creator. The state of your awareness and how you look at life may also have to be altered and expanded.
Remember that the soul of a person is revealed through the eyes.
The universe has a way of making things happen. All sincere dreams come true – it just takes time. In the meantime do what you can to enjoy every moment of every day because none of us really knows how much time we have. In the end, all we really have is our breath.
Pritika, this has been given with much love – hope it helps
. . ./John
PS – no reply necessary. Just enjoy your life – it is very precious. . ./J